Foreign Wife; Good or Bad? what Are The Conseqencies??
After the community contributed to sponsor him through his education in India, he returned home with an indian woman, they queried their union, but he pleaded that they allow him marry her, he tried all he could to convince them, but they were adamant. After several plead which fell on deaf ears. He relocated with his woman to the north, north east to be precise, where he took up a lecturing job, and she worked at the teaching hospital of the school as a medical doctor
Their union was blessed with 3 adorable most beautiful girls, they are ladies now,anyway.
During this period, his family forgot him and never contacted him, he tried some much to give his nuclear family a root, but his family shut the door on his face.
Some years later, he passed on, his wife took his corpse home, they took their son and buried him, ignoring his India wife and children. After the burial, they returned back to their base. Severally, this woman made attempt to reconcile her family with the larger family, all attempts failed.
Few years later she died after suffering several illness, leaving these young beautiful ladies alone in this cold world without a root or history.
Marriage is the problem now, who will marry a root less woman. Who will the bride price be paid to?
They are successful women presently , doing very well in their chosen career.
Some Igbo culture must be abolished. Like seriously, a man must be allowed to make his choice in marriage, good or bad he will suffer/ enjoy
Some years later, he passed on, his wife took his corpse home, they took their son and buried him, ignoring his India wife and children. After the burial, they returned back to their base. Severally, this woman made attempt to reconcile her family with the larger family, all attempts failed.
Few years later she died after suffering several illness, leaving these young beautiful ladies alone in this cold world without a root or history.
Marriage is the problem now, who will marry a root less woman. Who will the bride price be paid to?
They are successful women presently , doing very well in their chosen career.
Some Igbo culture must be abolished. Like seriously, a man must be allowed to make his choice in marriage, good or bad he will suffer/ enjoy
It will take time for him/her to adapt
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DeleteThat's nonsense n non challant irresponsible display of ignorance from the man's family....in this modern era,,people should b left alone to make their choice of who to marry...my dad use to hv that mentallity but as time goes he has come to embrace reality....it does not matter were ur getting married from,,what matters is getting d ideal wife who will accept u for who u are...as for those gals,,if they hv good manners believe me they will get married to d best guys around...fuck tradition,anybody can play the role of family memebers..Q.E.D
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