I am calling off my Engagement.

 
Okay, its a Monday therefore I wont bore you with any uninteresting story.
 
I had a very deep discussion with a close pal, she opened up that she wants to call off her engagement!..... wait before you shout ha! hear her.
 "I have been with my fiancee for 4 years, all he does is put me down, hit me at will, talk me down, even the sex is not exciting, he cant even give 'head very well'. I know he got issues which I am helping him to overcome, especially anger issues and because I know where he is coming from, I decided to give him all the love I have, Honestly, this is the first time I am sharing this with anyone.I think I deserve better. This holiday is the first time I am getting away from him, and I have seen better, someone is treating me better, he talks to me like I should be talked, he cherishes me, always ready to listen, he is quick to apologist when he offends me.
This is what I have never experienced, because my fiancee is the first man I have been with...but now I am experiencing better and am reluctant to go back. This new guy is opening my eyes to so many things I didn't know before, right now,I am getting new ideas of what to do with my life and career. He is helping me to grow, because he believes in me. This has nothing to do with family or background, I have know this guy since we were kids, I didn't know he has been inlove with me all these while, and has been waiting patiently to show it to me....and he is showing so much love and menhhhh... love making is a whole new experience for me!"
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I couldn't say much because I don't believe a man should hit a woman no matter the height of provocation, but I advice her not to be quick in taking this decision, give it time, but she is so irritated right now to the point that it affecting her communication with her fiancee. True is if a guy hit you once, he will do it again and again, and if her fiancee beats her up, then I am in support that she should walk away. The dude need to find himself first before another person.

Listen up!
If you don't treat your partner right, someday, He/she will taste better and will drop your ass like hot potatoes. everyone deserves better. Don't be master of all, open your heart to learn more and strive to be a better person in your relationship. 

Someday, I will tell you the story of a rich married woman that was ready to leave her rich husband for an Okada rider. 

Amazing true life stories.. share your thought here in the comment box.

 

2 comments:

  1. Here are my two cents. She should leave the guy who talks down and hits her. Its 4 years already, unless the man wants to change. No real man hits a woman. Ohhhhh..... There are soooook many ways to deal with a woman without touching her that she ll even beg to be beaten.... A man who hasnt married u and hits u is a no no. Dont die before ur time.

    However, the gurl is also not a faithful woman. She has now started having sex with this new guy? Haba! She has broken a barrier. Even if she doesnt marry Mr New Guy, there is soo much tendency she ll cheat with him anytime there is gbege with old guy.

    Question; will she ever tell Old Guy she cheated?

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    1. From the story, it's obvious that she has fallen out of love with her fiancée. Of course she may not tell him that she cheated.

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