Disadvantage of training Your Children Overseas

There is absolutely nothing wrong in training your children overseas. The koko of it is getting them to return home and establish here.


A man who recently lost his wife, desired that his 3 US based sons return home. He wanted them to come and take over his business and expand it. Make his dreams come true, marry here and rear children who will understand their ancestral background. He started pressurising them to return. Finally, they came back last year Christmas. He took them round and showing them his business and estate. 

* A petrol station and few apartments scattered around Lagos
* A contract office in Abuja and a Block of 6 flats with tenants in occupation
*A house in Owerri and few properties in Portharcourt. 

He went ahead to invite some home groomed girls hoping that some will catch his sons fancy
After the holiday he was eagerly expecting a positive response from them,...here is what he got.
Dad, you have done well for yourself, but we are cool in the states. You are welcome to stay with us in United States, we will take care of you, but Dad, we aren't coming back to live in Nigeria. If you are insisting on living here, you have our permission to sell off your estates and enjoy your self as much as you can.

Man's hope is shattered and he is heartbroken, it seems as though he has no son as weeds might take over his ancestral home.

How can parents avoid the above scenario?