"Secret Lovers" Can A man/Woman In A Happy Marriage Fall Inlove With Another Person? Is It Possible?

The song secret lovers by Atlantic starr painted a picture of two married people deeply in love with each other, sneaking times to spend and make love. Part of the lyrics of the song  goes
"Here we are, the two of us together
Taking this crazy chance to be all alone
We both know that we should not be together
'Cause if they found out, it could mess up
Both our happy homes

I hate to think about us all meeting up together
'Cause soon as I looked at you, it would show on my face, yeah
Then they'll know that we've been loving each other
We can never no, no, no, no, we can't leave a trace"

This is the story of these couple, they cant afford to leave a trace... They are madly inlove and enjoying each other's company but still want to be married to their different spouses. Isn't that selfishness?

 And from the song, its obvious that they both know each other's spouse and maybe shares double dates and activities together.

Its a popular notion that most married couple cheats with a friend of the family. A wife cheats with her husband's friend and husband cheating with his wife's girlfriend.

 "Sittin' at home I do nothing all day
But think about you and hope that you're okay
Hoping you'll call before anyone gets home
I'll wait anxiously alone by the phone

How could something so wrong be so right?
I wish we didn't have to keep our love out of sight, yeah
Living two lives, just ain't easy at all
But we gotta hang on and after fall"

A LOVE SO REAL, A LOVE SO SWEET, YET SO WRONG........ Its a difficult kind of LOVE

"Secret lovers, yeah that's what we are
Trying so hard to hide the way we feel
'Cause we both belong to someone else
But we can't let it go 'cause what we feel
Is, oh so real, so real, so real

You and me, are we fair?
Is this cruel or do we care?
Can they tell that's in our minds?
Maybe they've had secret love all of the time"




Ofcourse, its unfair, its cruel. You hide your true feelings. This is like eating your cake and having it. not fair at all.

Is it even possible to be inlove with two people are same time?


"In the middle of makin' love, we notice the time
We both get nervous 'cause it's way after nine
Even though we hate it, we know it's time that we go
We gotta be careful so that no one will know"

If it isn't broken don't fix it.... Why are you drawn to another person?  Can a man be deeply inlove with another woman and still love his wife? Same for the woman. Is this even possible in the real world?

share your thoughts.