Unmistakable Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You

People more often than not, are shocked when they catch their partners red handed in a compromising situation, cheating on them.

The truth is that the signs are always there. It is just that you didn’t see it or you could not bring yourself to imagine, your partner would ever want to hurt you.
These are some of the unmistakable signs that your significant other is not living up to expectations:

Frequent change of passwords: If your partner have to change passwords and ever too often as soon as you figure the latest one out, apparently he is hiding something.

Social media profiles : If your partner was very proud of your relationship and stops showing off your pictures on social media, then there might be a problem. If suddenly your partner prefers updating solo shots to couple shots, does not like your own updates and seems to always like every update of a particular friend of the opposite sex, then you have a clear red sign. This may take a little stalking on your part to confirm who they pay more attention to their updates, in the place of your own.

Phone habits: When your spouse frequently moves to another room where you cannot overhear the conversation, to pick calls, watch out. They may say it is work related, but you have to remember that a healthy relationship is an open one.

Unless they are planning a surprise birthday party for you, your spouse should feel comfortable talking to anyone on the phone in front of you.

Decreased or increased desire for intimacy: In some cases the desire for sex may decrease, since the cheat is already getting their pleasure outside the home. However, there is also the possibility that his or her interest in having sex may increase, because of feelings of guilt.

Cleared chat history: A big sign that someone is being unfaithful is when you find their computer or phone history cleared regularly. Though your spouse might be doing this for security reasons, it is more likely that they are going over and beyond trying to "cover their tracks." Also, when they quickly minimise their chat box when you approach them.

Refusal to Pick calls when you are together...If he he / she has nothing to hide, they will be free to pick calls and talk freely on the phone.

Increase in social activities: Take note when your spouse starts attending more social gatherings without you. Generally, when someone becomes shady about their social outings, it is usually a red flag. A guys'/girls’ night out or a business party are commonly used cover-ups.

Blame you for everything : No matter if something happened at work or away from home, they find a way to blame you and make you feel lousy. Sometimes when you try to call their attention to something they have done wrong, they still find a way to return the blame to you.

Physical appearance: Be careful not to jump to conclusions with this one. Your spouse's newfound desire to be more physically attractive might be a result of trying to look more professional for work, or maybe they are just trying to catch your eye. However, if you have noticed any of the other signs on this list, you may have a problem. When seeking a new relationship or adventure, people usually take extra care in managing their outward appearance.

Increase in gifts: Spouses who are being unfaithful will often try to cover their guilt with splurges of gifts. If you are surprised by the sudden amount of attention and gifts your spouse is giving you, you might want find out what the motive behind them is.

If you find four or more of these signs in your relationship , something strange is happening. The only thing to do is to have an open mature conversation where everything is laid bare to the table.

If your partner is actually cheating, you can forgive and heal or talk to a therapist or attend counselling sessions together.