Are you Thre Cause Of Her v*gina Dryness: Unconventional Causes and Remedy.

Lately I have been reading a lot about VJ dryness since the story of a doctor advising that saliva should not be used  lubricant.... although many do not agree with the him going by the regular oral s** that takes place between couple during s**... story for another day.

let's dive in...


It is a known fact that there are number of things that are responsible for vj dryness which includes hormonal changes, irritants to delicate tissues, anxiety, and more.

Changes in hormones. 
One of the most common causes of vj dryness is a decrease in estrogen levels during menopause or perimenopause, after childbirth, or during breastfeeding, according to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). Cancer treatments such as chemotherapy and radiation to the pelvis can also lead to low estrogen and a decrease in vj lubrication. “The vj depends on estrogen for health,” says Irwin Goldstein, MD, director of S**xual Medicine at Alvarado Hospital and San Diego S**xual Medicine in California.

Medications.
And cold medications containing antihistamines as well as asthma medications can have a drying effect inside the body and cause reduced vj lubrication, according to Dr. Goldstein.

Insufficient arousal.
In some cases, vj dryness may be caused by a low libido or s**xual problems with a partner. “If a partner has poor performance and early ejaculation, it can contribute to vj dryness,” Goldstein says.

Irritants.
The chemicals in soaps, hygiene products, dyes, and perfumes may cause problems. “Many women have allergies to detergents and soaps,” Goldstein says. “There can be irritants on things like underwear or towels.” Other allergens can actually include lubricants and objects that may be placed in the vj he adds.

Anxiety.
Psychological and emotional factors like stress and anxiety can also interfere with s**xual desire and lead to vj dryness when normal vj lubrication does not occur. “When a woman is anxious, there is insufficient blood flow,” Goldstein says, “so she will have dryness.”

I want to dwell a little more on anxiety / psychological/emotional factor.
Some women are in a relationship where they resent deeply but for some reasons they remain in such relationship.... we can find many of such relationship around us.

loveless marriage - societal pressure and others, pushes women into marriages they ordinarily would not want to be in, therefore having s** with this fellow becomes more of a responsibility that must be carried out.

Then  they began to resent themselves and the fellow deep down  but must yield their body to his satisfaction.  They often find themselves dry during intercourse.

A simply situation is relationship, where a lady is in a relationship based on the monetary benefits or some other situation beyond her control.  She secretly wish that she can meet her needs independently but since she has no choice at that moment, she must submit her body to s** with this fellow who often is in control and may often demand for  s** without protection.... she tries to play along but deep inside, she is not happy and her body reacts by shutting down.

Manipulative relationship is another one, where the man manipulates the lady. He is unfaithful, he is bossy, he is always right, he subtly make her feel he was the best thing that has happened to her, she plays along, she wants to settle down, she keeps convincing herself that he is good enough for her.. but emotionally she is struggling, she wants to yield her body, get it to work but guess what, her body locks up... all his kisses, fondling, touches etc cannot break through the wall her body has built right deep inside... sometimes, he struggle to gain penetration, even when he does, its all dryness....

love Language: Loving her right... We all have love languages and one of the keys to a relationship bliss is speaking the right love language ... a wrong approach to that can lead to vj dryness.

Are you experiencing vj drying and you think yours is as a result of anxiety, emotional or psychological issues, its time to address it.....

One of the ways to address it is to discuss it with your partner and take a decision.

Only few men will understand the struggle women go through emotionally.

Are you the cause of her dryness?

If your partner is experiencing dryness and  from the above points, you understand where the issue is coming from, please address it.... Women respond to words... speak to her calmly and romantically before s**... such discussion will open her up... If you truly love her.

Apologize and mean it... Speak to her soul and break down all the walls that her spirit has built up without her knowledge but as a result of the effect of the resentment she feels towards you for treating her in certain ways....

loving a woman right is one key to a happy relationship most black men are ignorant of.

Solution to other Causes of VJ Dryness.


Women who experience problems with vj lubrication because of hormonal changes can often benefit from estrogen therapy, according to ACOG.

In some cases, doctors recommend localized treatments like vj estrogen inserts. For other women, especially those who have symptoms such as hot flashes in addition to vj dryness, an oral medication or a skin patch that releases estrogen throughout the body is an option, according to ACOG. And, in some cases, both approaches can be used together to effectively treat vj dryness. “Local estrogen hormone treatments that are inserted into the vj in the form of a ring, pellet, or cream can complement systemic medications that raise systemic levels of estrogen,” Goldstein says.

In addition to estrogen-based therapies, other approaches that may bring relief, especially from painful s**, include:

Lubricants. “There are a plethora of lubricants that can help vj dryness,” They include silicone-based, oil-based, and water-based products, Lubricants are usually used to make s** less uncomfortable rather than for long-term vj lubrication.

Moisturizers. Over-the-counter vj moisturizers can be an effective way to minimize vj dryness over several days with one application. Goldstein explains that “moisturizing agents help introduce water into the tissue of the vj”

VJ dryness is a common and frustrating condition, but there are ways to alleviate the discomfort. If a lack of lubrication is causing painful s**, be sure to talk to your doctor about all possible treatments.

I hope you were able to learn something today.

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