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Let's dive
in…
Who is a
fvckboy and what does it mean?
A Fvck boy
is a guy, not a woman. He is someone who does not respect women, but yet relies
on them heavily. He does not care for anyone's feelings but himself and hardly
commits to anyone. A fvck boy also relies on his mother but ironically, has no
respect for women. A fvckboy is someone who doesn’t respect women, he is a player who will not commit to one person 100%, and he is basic in his clothing
choices and personality. Maybe he’s also a misogynist. He sees women as a s*x toy for play and can do
anything to get what he wants. The most prominent factor that defines a
fuckboy's true nature is s*x.
A fuckboy is all about trying to have his way in between the sheets.
For recap
here are the elements that define a fvckboy.
He is a
faker
It’s a man who doesn’t respect women.
Simultaneously, he’s dependent on women.
He engages in selfish behavior without caring whether or not
he hurts women… Like he does
not care.
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Characteristics
of a Fvck boy
*He will
do or say anything (which includes lying) to have s*x.
A FB will flatter you to high heavens until you turn his request down then you will see
his real self. He is good at ghosting or
gaslighting you. He does the barest minimum to have his way with you.
*He
Loves to Keep women “around.”
It seems like fvckboys just like knowing that a woman is there, and they could
have her if they wanted to. They
just like having options. I think it's a power thing for them.
*They
often seem fragile.
Because of
their selfish nature to only do what interests them, they often claim or act
fragile. They don’t want to see you with another yet won't commit and care about
what makes you happy. A fvckboi will send you a barrage of
texts calling you nonstop.
They often make an issue out of nothing and tends to exaggerate an issue. When you
call them out on their BS,
now sit and watch them whine because they can’t handle that one bit.
These boys are incapable of accepting any responsibility for their shitty
behavior.
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*Always
be selfish.
These guys literally don’t care about anyone but themselves.
Maybe they treat their boys with a morsel of respect, but probably not. They
are users. They use women.
*He
tries to make you feel like you owe him something. Maybe nude pictures. NOTE: If a guy tries to guilt trip you
for not sending a pic – he’s a fvckboy.
*You
have no idea how many other women are in his life. Fvckbois are always bragging about the number of women
they are attached to; these women may be unaware of the existence of each
other. They will often tell stories of
how women are hitting on them; this is just to make themselves feel important. Fvckboy’s phone is constantly
blowing up with notifications, social media platforms like Facebook, Instagram,etc, and texts from other ladies. You ask him how many
girls he’s seeing and he keeps it vague. Who knows how many girls he’s talking to…
*He
says exactly what he thinks you want to hear. When you confront him on his shit and he
says things like “You’re totally right.” He says he’ll change. He’ll tell you
reasons why you’re better than him. But fhe keeps doing what fvckbois always do. RUN!
* He’s
the kind of guy who says you look tired or ugly when you’re not wearing makeup.
He makes judgmental comments about your appearance, your outfit, your makeup,
etc. Or even your
private parts He definitely has an idea about how women “should”
look and if you’re not on your A-game every time you see him he WILL point it
out. This is the ultimate fvckboy. Walk away.
* A FB
feels very entitled and rubbishes another human for his pleasure.
*He’s
charming, funny, and charismatic. He just knows all the right things to say and
do to make you feel special. And he knows it. After all, these are tried and
tested on other people too.
You think you have something special with him, wait till you speak on other
womwn….
*Lies, Lies, Lies
Many men have a tendency to lie – they want an easy life, right? We can all do it at the best of times. The thing is, a fuckboy will lie to keep his player ways intact.
*He’s
Always Online
Do you know the ‘active’ sign on WhatsApp or Messenger? He’s
always on it. Yet considering he’s ALWAYS busy – and it’s not always you he’s
replying to – it’s got to be a big
sign he’s talking to lots of other people. (Even if he does say it’s “just
group chat” or family… Pfft!)
*His
social media Is FULL Of Females
Check his online
friends, they are majorly women, that’s a sign! You know those guys that
are following like 600 people and when you click on it, you see 90% of them are
girls? Uh-huh. Womaniser, womaniser, womaniser… It’s their way of life. Or a
stage in their life right now. They’re usually boys, just unable to grow up
just yet. (Although some never do!)
But the biggest mistake you can make is thinking you can
change them, or make them commit. You want to be the one they fell for, the one that turned them
around. But you can’t make anyone do anything. Yet you’re fighting a losing
battle.
Just remember, it’s no reflection on you. It’s not because
you’re not good enough. (If anything- you’re too good!) But a fvckboy will lose his ways in
his own time, if and when he wants to. So don’t ever try to make anything
serious with him, or get your hopes up, you are kidding
yourself.
Put your time and effort into the people who are really
worth it. Who will give you what you need and reciprocate your effort, looking
for the same things in life too…
So how
do you recover or handle the issue of Fvck boys?
Truth is
most ladies will fall victim to a fvck boy in their prime age but staying in it
is wrong. Stand up, dust yourself, and walk away.
In your recovery, please first learn how to have casual sex responsibly if you must. The casual s8x might not be the
issue but there is an issue with lying, manipulating, and taking
advantage of your casual partner.
Second, talk to someone, it's often therapeutic to speak to someone.
get into therapy. You might be struggling with bigger issues than you know.
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